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Archive for July, 2009

July 29th, 2009 by rusvw

Casey: Always Loved, Forever Missed

It was six months ago tonight that I checked Facebook one last time before going to sleep, and my heart just collapsed as I read the status updates: RIP Casey, Casey I <3 U, Miss U Casey, among others. I started texting friends, then making calls, then realizing that this world just lost a most [...]

July 25th, 2009 by rusvw

Tranquility: Peace in Process

photo: http://alittlecrafty.com I’ve always been fascinated with Chinese characters, and the symbol for Tranquility is one that means a great deal to me. Quite literally, the symbol depicts male dominance in the Chinese tradition, where the smaller symbol of a man’s “roof” hovers over the symbol for “woman.” I like the explanation provided in The [...]

July 24th, 2009 by rusvw

30-Second Life Check: What Are You Telling The World?

Thank God for stop lights. If you are like me, it’s not hard to get caught up in the whirlwind of life, sweeping you off your feet as you try desperately to keep up with family, work, and various social networks—real and virtual—that matter a great deal to you. In fact, we often get swept [...]

July 23rd, 2009 by rusvw

Why Do(n’t) You Write?

Last week, while on vacation, I spent one mid-morning watching tv with my younger two children. They channel-surfed between PBS, the Disney Channel, and the Cartoon Network with the navigation of a highly trained professional. I was extremely impressed with their efficient use of commercial time to 1) find other shows not on commercial break, [...]

July 22nd, 2009 by rusvw

Balance in the Braid: the Weave of Life, Love, and Home

A good friend of mine, whom I have not seen in many years, mentioned to me yesterday that my return to Baltimore was like coming back to reality. I understand her sentiment perfectly, as I have felt the resistance so many times to “return to reality” after a wonderful vacation. After all, the reasons why [...]

July 20th, 2009 by rusvw

Summer of 2009: Day 5 in OC, Part II

What a magnificent day. From the early-morning shoot, to a day at the beach, then over to Assateague for a brilliant sunset, then back to the Boardwalk for a late-night walk, we could not have asked for a more complete and memory-filled day. Sunday served as our climactic “event” day of our vacation; now we [...]

July 19th, 2009 by rusvw

Summer of 2009: Ocean City, Day 5, Early Morning

Good morning. I just don’t think I’m going to make it for a sunrise while we’re down here, at least not for a photo shoot. Truth is, I don’t have the lens for it, or the tripod. No worries…. :) Gives me good reason to sleep in a bit! I did get up at 6 [...]

July 17th, 2009 by rusvw

Summer of 2009: Day Three in OC

After spending day three in the sun, the humidity, the rain, and then the colder winds blowing off the bay, I know three things: My son can nearly read grafitti in bathroom stalls (because so many words look and sound quite similar to a word he knows well: Truck); My son absolutely hates fast rides [...]

July 16th, 2009 by rusvw

Summer of ’09: Day Two in OC

What a truly blessed day. We have just arrived home from spending the day and evening at the beach, where everybody had a wonderful time. That is, once we finally secured breakfast. You see, I learned a very important lesson today: either update your GPS software when they tell you to, or simply open your [...]

July 16th, 2009 by rusvw

Summer of ’09: Day One in Ocean City

It’s amazing what a 3-hour drive will do to calm your tensions and anxieties. When we left Baltimore around 3 p.m., each of us was a little stressed about getting ready for the trip, packing, and taking care of last-minute needs around the house. As we headed toward Ocean City, MD, however, we could feel [...]